its usually time to face red :)
I wonder why we create such strong emotional entanglements that begin to feel stifling. Parents, siblings, spouse, 'best friends'. We start taking them for granted as soon as we reach a level of confidence of their stability. These relationships fulfill our social and financial needs but as time passes, they seem to feel like hygiene factors rather than motivators ( long live Herzberg ! ). They keep you from sinking but also seem to hold you back from taking flight.
You don't want to disentangle but also want to set yourself free.
What's the answer ?
I wonder why we create such strong emotional entanglements that begin to feel stifling. Parents, siblings, spouse, 'best friends'. We start taking them for granted as soon as we reach a level of confidence of their stability. These relationships fulfill our social and financial needs but as time passes, they seem to feel like hygiene factors rather than motivators ( long live Herzberg ! ). They keep you from sinking but also seem to hold you back from taking flight.
You don't want to disentangle but also want to set yourself free.
What's the answer ?
